Florida Divorce: Why Custody Plan Evaluations Are Important :: Jacksonville Criminal Defense Attorney Blog

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First, the Florida legislature changed child custody to "primary timesharing parent" in October, 2008. However, since most of us are familiar with child custody and custody issues, this article will still address the issue as the historic term, "custody."
In dealing in Florida Family Law, paternity cases and divorces with children, custody issues often arise and the Custody Evaluation is the single most important factor. In Jacksonville, Florida, many judges are relying completely on custody evaluations to determine who should get the majority of the time with the kids. Some Judges only read the conclusions of the custody evaluation to make their decision.
The evaluation is conducted by a professional, (usually someone with a psychology and law background) who will interview the parents, speak with witnesses, talk to the kids, look at school records, etc. Then the evaluator writes a recommendation which is usually quite lengthy if done correctly.
So how do you present well in the custody evaluation? Extend a mental olive branch to the other party. During your interview with the evaluator, do not destroy the other parent with disparaging remarks. Describe the parts of parenting that the other parent does well and be honest in your comments about the children's relationship with their other parent. Then share the things that do concern you because even though the other parent is an overall good parent, tell the evaluator why the children are better off having more time with you.
If there are serious "concerns" such as child abuse, molestation, or similar behaviors, then you MUST disclose those to the evaluator. These concerns should be addressed in a professional manner with the evaluator, by giving examples or reasons for the beliefs. While those issues are difficult to remove yourself from emotionally, try to keep calm when discussing them so the evaluator has all of the pertinent facts and information to further his/her investigation.
Throughout the process, it is important to remain as calm and beievably positive as possible. You do not want to come across as "Donna Reed" when really you're just a working, single mom trying to make ends meet. That goes for you single dad's too, don't try to be Mr. Cleaver, be yourself, but also be the better part of yourself.